Let s simply enjoy one another. I don t realise why we have to place a label upon it.
He ll make it appear it s really just his way of being opportunistic like it s just a matter of principle, but. Because a label means accountability. Then you can voice your concerns, you can expect him to be there for you or reassure you, and you can call him out for his crappy behavior if he s your boyfriend or you re in a committed relationship. But if you two aren t actually official, you re simply Whatever you’ll be able to t really hold him accountable because he never really decided to anything.
Every player understands ultimately that this type of thing works. So long as he functions like he s in relationship mode (at the very least sometimes), nearly all women will provide him the perks that can come from being committed. Therefore, he plays household as he s nevertheless playing the industry.
Because he won t label that which you have actually, he ll probably do lots of flip flopping. Often, he ll behave like you two are in a relationship that is serious. In other cases, he ll become you re barely buddies.
It’s going to appear really inconsistent in the beginning, unless you clue in to the proven fact that he wants all of the advantages of being with you without the need to place such a thing in on their end.